PERMANENT ZEN BLOG: WHAT ARE CORDS OF ATTACHMENT?
Energetic cords are a method of high speed communication and the sharing of energy. There are healthy cords that create and nurture the sharing of information and energy, for example between a two year old and his or her parents. These energetic cords are obviously important for survival.
There are also unhealthy cords that can drain huge amounts of energy from you. If you find yourself constantly thinking of someone in particular, you may form a cord that will drain you and make you feel bad for no reason.
Etheric cords can form between people, objects, and situations where there is a fearful attachment, afraid to let go, scared to be alone, afraid to be without. These are invisible energy links. We normally cord to other people and also allow them to cord to us throughout the course of our everyday lives. Many of these cords are short lived and dissolve quickly.
Longer-term relationships generally create cords with a build-up of numerous energies and emotions such as need, desire, love, anger, jealousy, envy, etc. They can be very intensive and volatile and can create problems in the form of aches and pains, depression, rage, exhaustion, burn-out, etc.
“Cutting cords doesn’t mean, “I don’t love you or care about you anymore.” Cord cutting doesn’t necessarily lead to break-ups or abandoned relationships. It simply means that you are releasing the dysfunctional parts of your relationships. Remember, fear is the opposite of love, and etheric cords (and all attachments) are created from fear”. Doreen Virtue
7 Signs that you have cords of attachment:
1. You can't stop thinking about another person or event: even if months or years have passed, you're still not able to stop thinking about them or it.
2. Imaginary Arguments: constantly revisiting past events and imagining saying things that you never said, which in turn causes strong emotional reactions.
3. Relationship Karmic Loop: feeling yourself constantly stuck in the same relationship dynamic (betrayal, heartbreak, codependency, etc)
4. The same people or events appear in your dreams: Old dramas are constantly being revisited
5. You feel drained: constantly feeling like your energy and your life force is being drained
6. You can't forgive: feelings of bitterness or holding a grudge against another person
7. Can't get them out of your life: a negative presence in your life always seems to find a way back into it
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WHY REIKI HEALING IS EFFECTIVE FOR DEPRESSION
Many individuals who are either suffering through depression or anxiety tend to rely on some form of medication. However, there is a growing number of people who are becoming aware of the fact that depression and anxiety can be cured without the use of anti-psychotics. Depression and anxiety need to be understood as energy imbalances rather than a mental disorder. Thus, in order to cure depression or anxiety, it’s critically important to treat the imbalanced energy and the behavior and mindset that proliferates the imbalance.
To overcome the root cause of depression or anxiety, Reiki in New York, as well as Spiritual Counseling can prove to be powerful solutions.
Reiki is a technique of transferring the universal energy to the patient by the practitioner to area of the body where it is needed. Turning to Individual Reiki Sessions NYC can help you regain the natural flow of energy that our bodies need to be relaxed, happy and healthy.